From Rugs to Roses: Mary Jameson’s Story By Krystle Yeung
“I’ve come a long ways.”
By all accounts, Mary Jameson’s* statement is a modest understatement. In 1998, a close loved one passed away, and in the turbulent aftermath, Mary lost her job as a manager at a casino and her health deteriorated. A divorce and familial pressures brought her to a near breaking point. “I felt like the rug was pulled out from right underneath my feet.”
“My outside world started crumbling, and then my inside world started crumbling,” she describes. A mother of 3, Mary fought to hold down jobs and “keep things together” while struggling with anxiety.
Almost 10 years passed without any significant improvement, “I tried to get help but I didn’t know where to start,” she said.
Mary eventually moved in with her daughter and her fiancée to a home with a backyard. She began gardening again, a hobby she had long forgotten about. “Working with flowers and plants was always a love of mine. It was like a dream come true to be working in the garden and having a passion again,” she describes. “It helped me grow, to let that love out again.”
Around the same time, Mary began going to Canadian Mental Health Association (CMHA). Through CMHA she was able to meet with a therapist and employment counsellor, both of whom she expressed were wonderful and supportive. She was also seeking work, but the process was not without its challenges.
“I tried a couple times to look for work,” she said. “But I’d get anxious. I’m not from the city; I’m from a small town. I’d get confused, so I kind of gave up on that for a while.”
A break came in January 2008. Mary’s CMHA employment counsellor referred her to a Landscaping BusinessLinks. BusinessLinks is a customized training program organized by BOB designed to bridge the gap between job-seekers and employers. There she met Ramesh Lad, an Employment Support Coordinator at BOB.
“Ramesh understood that I wasn’t ready to just jump right into the workforce,” Mary said. After completing the week-long training course Mary was interviewed by RONA and offered a position in their Gardening Department.
She and Ramesh worked together to make her transition back into the workforce a smooth one. The position at RONA required Mary to wear safety boots, which at the time she did not have the funds to purchase herself. BOB loaned her some funds to buy a pair. She was also in need of some work clothes, so Ramesh connected her with Dress for Success, a non-profit organization that provides women with professional attire.
Ramesh keeps in touch with Mary on a regular basis. “He’s a really good morale booster,” she says, “he’s very encouraging”.
Mary will soon have passed her 5-month mark of working at RONA. “Working with plants, I can feel the energy” she says, “and that makes me happy.”
“I want to be able to stand solid, to show my children that ‘Mommy is okay’, and to have their minds at ease,” she continues, “and I am doing that.”
*name changed per request